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couple therapy relationship coach in wanaka
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Welcome to a new kind of relationship coaching

You might be standing at a crossroads right now - heart cracked open, unsure whether to stay, leave, or begin again. Maybe you’ve outgrown old patterns. Maybe you’re tired of trying to hold it all together.

Here’s the truth:

You don’t need to figure it all out alone .

I’m here to walk with you - through the breakdowns, the breakups, and the breakthroughs that follow.

I’m a Relationship Coach, Family Mediator, and a compassionate guide for men and women who are ready to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their next chapter.

This is a space for emotional honesty, radical self-trust, and heart-centered clarity.

Whether you’re navigating a long-term relationship crisis, co-parenting challenges, or the quiet ache of midlife disconnection… you’ll find grounded support here.

This is not about fixing you.  It's about coming home to yourself - one brave, beautiful step at a time.

Step by step support for parenting, relationships, and family life:

  • When life feels too much, we start by creating space. You’ll unpack what’s weighing you down, rebuild confidence, and find steadier ground; whether in parenting, partnership, or everyday life.

  • Whether you’ re navigating parenting, co-parenting, or a romantic relationship, we help you reconnect through deeper communication, trust, and emotional safety.

  • We move beyond discipline as punishment. Learn to set respectful boundaries and guide your child (or teen) with empathy, clarity, and calm authority.

  • Support yourself and your child in understanding big feelings. We work on emotional literacy, nervous system regulation, and staying connected in moments of stress or shutdown.

  • Define your family values, communicate your needs clearly, and create rhythms at home that reflect what matters most — including healthy screen-time habits.

  • From navigating separation to managing anxiety — yours or your child’s — we offer grounded support that helps you move forward with confidence and care.

Unsure where to start?
Sometimes, all it takes is a quick conversation, to get clarity.
relationship coach lisa

For over 30 years working as an educator, mediator, coach, mindfulness teacher, and guidance counselor, I've helped hundreds of couples and parents create more respectful, connected, and consciously aware relationships. I've witnessed the incredible transformation that happens when families and couples embrace mindful, self-aware approaches to their relationships.

Heartfelt Stories of Change

  • “Amazing, empowering and non-judgemental, Lisa has had a significant and meaningful impact on our family. I am so grateful for the strategies I have learnt from the program that empowered my children, and me. When we face difficult feelings, remember to connect before we correct. Practising mindful communication has created a stronger relationship with my two children.” Emily, Parent

  • "We worked with Lisa during a very difficult period in our relationship. From the beginning, she created a safe, non-judgmental space where we both felt heard. She offered practical tools and thoughtful insights that really helped us improve our communication and reconnect. We're in a much stronger place now to be able to unpack rising issues, and we’re truly grateful for her support. Highly recommended." Shannan

  • "My partner and I absolutely felt comfortable talking to Lisa for our first session. She was very easy to talk too, and made us feel at ease with expressing ourselves as we were both very nervous. Highly recommend her. Thanks so much Lisa. We'll definitely see you in our next session."Regina Kemp

  • “Lisa’s empathic reflection and guidance has helped me to really understand who I am, beneath the layers of confusion that I’d felt burdened by forever. Over the course of a few sessions, we deconstructed some key patterns and triggers from my childhood that I simply could never have identified and healed on my own. My sessions with Lisa have been transformative. She is truly gifted, committed and passionate about her work and the people she helps. My connection with my child continues to grow immeasurably as my own awareness develops. My world has changed as a result and I will be forever grateful.” Shine, Parent

  • “My experience has been life changing. The best part was learning how to reflect on myself and thoughts. I have always blocked this out since early teenage years so it was great to have a safe, positive place with like-minded people to share, learn and reflect with.” Noor

  • “I used to have a short temper with my wife and kids, especially when they started whining at me. I was good at threatening, shouting and punishing my boys if they didn’t listen to me or do what I told them to do. Since the completion of the course I have raised my voice a few times ( no more shouting at them). I have learnt to build rapport and practise active listening before I impose my values upon them. I use conflict resolution skills with them when they are fighting. I can see my two boys are much calmer and polite compared to before the course. And our relationship has never been better! Highly recommend the course”. Frank, Parent

  • “You equip yourself with knowledge and tools to help you understand how you can do your bit to potentially influence others to change and create a domino effect of good things happening. You’ll leave the retreat physically, but spiritually it’ll remain with you.” Jon Jon, (aged 19).

  • "I now feel better equipped to respond to the challenging behaviours of my children. Before these sessions, I was very reactive and we were falling apart as a family." Marcus, Parent

  • “Lisa has helped me become more assertive with managing difficult adult relationships in my role as Deputy Principal.” Dianna

  • “What I found most helpful about Lisa’s coaching was her ability to help me understand and unfold the true me. Her calm, confidence and integrity made me feel comfortable to unpack and address long standing challenges. Working with Lisa has helped me value myself, gain confidence and make better decisions.” Lavender, Parent

  • “I will use this programme in my life to help others and to make myself stronger both mentally and emotionally. It’s like a life guide. I can also use these tools to help others struggling with mental issues, bullying etc.” Amanda, (aged 17)